Party Tip: Separate the Girls

The best chance you have of your guys meeting girls is to separate them. By nature, girls go in packs of at least two to five girls. You see this when girls go to the bathroom. You would think that a 20-year-old girl is fully capable of peeing by herself. Yet, girls need their friends to make them feel confident and comfortable. Another reason to separate a pack of girls is that they love to cockblock guys. If a guy approaches a group of girls, but only flirts with one of the girls, then the other girls in the group will try to get rid of the guy. A girl doesn’t want to see her friend being hit on by a guy when she’s not getting hit on. It makes the girl who is not being paid attention to feel ugly. 

If a guy manages to take the girl away from her friends and talk to her, then he has a much better chance of getting hooking up with her. In order to break up the pack of girls, a guy will need other guys to talk and distract the girl’s friends, so their buddy can hook up. If all girls are being noticed and talked to, then they will not think about their friend hooking up, but they will be forced to concentrate on the conversation at hand.

A good way to separate girls is to make your party into different rooms. What I mean by this is to have stuff going on in guys' rooms. Instead of having the party in the living room, where girls can remain in packs, have it in a smaller room and girls will be forced to separate due to space considerations. Without her friends around for support, a girl will have to meet guys and talk to them. Also, when a girl is alone, it makes it a lot easier for a guy to talk to them because there aren’t any distractions.

Disecting Girls at a Party

Girls are very complex, and they can change their actions from the classroom to the party. Since the primary reason to throw a frat party is to get girls, then you must understand the motives of girls. Girls spend a lot of time getting ready for a party so they can feel good about themselves and be liked by guys. If a girl is not noticed at a party, but her friends are, then she will understand this, as something is wrong or different about her. She might conclude that she is unattractive (this might be true or false). A girl’s self-esteem plays a big role in the way she acts. Follow these three steps to make sure every girl is noticed:

1. Make sure you acknowledge every girl at a party (A “hello” is mediocre, but a proper introduction with name, etc is preferred)

2. Compliment her accessories, such as necklace, bracelet, or earrings (Why do you think she is wearing it in the first place? She took the time to pick out the accessory so someone can notice it)

3. Offer her a drink (Now she feels that you took the time to do something personal for her)